To be messy or not to be messy?!? That is the question.
Am I being a bad parent for not letting my girls get dirty?
I feel like I have trouble letting my kids get dirty. I'm a stickler for making sure they always have to look nice and if that means going without (food wise) then sometimes I will take that option. Strange I know and that's why I'm asking other mothers if they experience the same thing?
If Miss H decides she wants to play outside I have to consider what she is going to wear and then if she comes in dirty I cringe. I also consider what she is going to wear when we go to town and what we will be doing there. I will definitely not put her in a good dress if we are going on a playdate in the park however then I have the dilemma of does she still look nice.
I cringe when Miss H asks me if she can paint (she's only painted a couple of times and she's almost 3). I hate that she mixes the paints and gets more over herself than the paper. Maybe I'm a little OTT. Thankfully I have a lovely friend (
http://dallicottage.blogspot.com/) that makes paint smocks and I ordered one which cuts down on some of the cringe factor.
One pet hate is when Miss H has had her bath and is ready for bed and hubby will come in absolutely filthy (cows and cars don't make for a spotlessly clean man) and ask for a cuddle. COME ON! Although after a few scoldings from me, hubby will now check if she's in her PJ's before asking.
Don't get me wrong occasionally I'll go with the flow and Miss H will get filthy dirty or wet through, but those times are few and far between.
Seriously am I strange or do most mothers have a cringe factor when it comes to getting dirty/messy??
Have a safe and Happy Easter.
KT x
P.S. Here's a photo of Miss A I took yesterday
This time I was glad we hadn't mowed the lawn or I wouldn't have got this shot.